and maybe the advice of others as well.. So I have achieved it, I now have six pack abs, Iím ripped. I am however unemployed and will have to go on public assistance soon. Iím also kind of crushing on an 18 year old who lives in my area. I see her almost every day, and I usually say hi to her, then I just walk on because I just feel I have nothing to offer her. Other than a now ripped bod and straight white teeth I donít even know that Iím that good looking, I canít even afford to buy her coffee or something. how can a man with social problems date without spending money.. what should I do?